Posted by sleepygirl on November 30, 2005, at 23:58:04
In reply to Question to ponder, posted by annierose on November 30, 2005, at 17:23:14
I wonder about this too. I don't know. I know I have a terrible, crushing sort of insecurity which has been the focus of much therapy.
I'm not sure that a lot of people understand it, and I guess that's good for them. Perhaps they'd take the relationship more "for granted"- without any negative connotation here. Perhaps it wouldn't be the focus?
This is a good question for me because I'm really starting to think that a lot of people just don't "get it" (the insecurity, preoccupation with fear in the T relationship) - and it sort of freaks them out. I think feeling "safe" with someone is the most amazing thing in the world - because it's really hard for me. I still have serious issues with this, but for what I have sometimes, I am soooo grateful.
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