Posted by rainbowbrite on November 25, 2005, at 11:01:52
In reply to Re: family and the holidays and therapists » rainbowbrite, posted by Poet on November 25, 2005, at 9:01:52
> Hi Rain,
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> It wouldn't do any good for me to confront my family about how they messed me up, so I just grit my teeth and go.
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> My T has asked me why I don't just tell my parents that my husband and I have other plans, but I don't. I guess it's because some part of me thinks maybe my family is not so horrible. Then I get there, see my evil brother and the horror comes into focus.
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> I wish my T would call my family and say Poet isn't coming this year, she needs a permanent vacation from you.
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> Poetaww Im sorry Poet, hopefully there will be time when you will be able to say to them that you and your husband have chosen differnet plans for the holidays and will need to spend less time at theirs. :-(
I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving
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