Posted by 10derHeart on November 19, 2005, at 19:32:41
In reply to Re: I'm doing surprisingly well today..., posted by fallsfall on November 17, 2005, at 7:49:40
Yes, it's really huge. Really hits home when you sometimes read posts of people struggling to see whether or not their T's really are putting their needs first all the time. Ouch. It's a blessing I don't have that issue.
Guess it's hard for me sometimes to keep trust separate from perfection. No one's perfect, yet we nearly want that from a T. at times. Maybe this will end up showing me how to trust and forgive human error withour so much agony and fear. After all, if they're (T.s) somewhat like guides on a journey, well, I guess my guide can take a slightly wrong turn and then apologize and backtrack to get us going the right way. I suppose I can allow for that without losing faith.
I like your soft blanket image. I don't quite have it with this T. I can see potentially having it. I see us close to that. And that's okay for now.
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