Posted by Tamar on November 9, 2005, at 18:17:41
In reply to going to say...but**trigger**, posted by B2chica on November 9, 2005, at 12:27:27
Wow B2C, you are *so* brave! Well done for saying it. It’s really difficult to do.
> do i need to convince myself? could i be wrong? could my T be wrong? what if it really wasnt that bad and by saying that it was i'm demeaning those that really did suffer?
I know it’s hard to believe. And so we ask ourselves over and over whether we’re wrong. Or we tell ourselves it wasn’t *really* abuse. I think it’s hard to believe because it’s so shocking. We wonder if something so very shocking could actually have happened to us.
But, shocking though it is, you were able to say it. And that takes enormous courage. I’m so impressed that you were able to do that.
(((((B2C)))))
> i'm starting to think about death again,
I think people often have dark thoughts after telling. Maybe people want to protect themselves from the horror of it… or punish themselves for telling the secret…
Hang in there. Take it an hour at a time. I’ll be thinking of you.
Tamar
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