Posted by happyflower on November 5, 2005, at 20:40:25
In reply to Re: How would it make you feel if your T said that » happyflower, posted by fallsfall on November 4, 2005, at 22:53:17
I guess our relationship is becoming more personal . It feels good and natural to me.
I do know is that I have never met someone who shares the same interests, thinks a lot like me about major issues,and has the same life values. The simularities are so nurmerous and amazing really. We are both physically attracted to each other, but we are also attracted to each other as a person. If we were not married, and he wasn't my T, I am sure you would all say we were perfect for each other.
Yes, I do believe fate brought us together, for what, I am not sure, but it feels right. I know my emotions have been all over the place about him, but it is because I am trying to ignore what is in my heart and me going with my heart and instincts have never wronged me. I do believe there is something special between us, maybe it will never amount to anything, but there is something and I know he feels it too. I think you have been reading my posts for months and you have seen what has been happening.
I know the ethics and all that stuff, I know what is said about T and client relationships. I know I can get hurt, but I feel it is worth the risk to me. I know he won't do anything during therapy, or if I stay married. He is a very good T, is very respected, and he wouldn't do anything to risk his job. I believe we were meant to be together, I don't know if it will happen,I am realisic, but he will always be in my heart. Okay, I know you are all going to tell me the negative stuff about this, but can you see anything positive about this if we were to follow the rules and become more than T and client?
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