Posted by Susan47 on November 4, 2005, at 21:15:36
In reply to Re: How would it make you feel if your T said that » Susan47, posted by happyflower on November 4, 2005, at 20:55:38
I think he likes you as a person and probably shouldn't be asking you the kinds of questions he asks you. Quite frankly, his questions sound inappropriate; it's about what he wants to talk about, the direction he wants things to take; imo it's patently obvious. And the reason you're posting this is because inside yourself you know it, but you can't sound like a jerk coming out and saying, "I think this man whom I ADORE and fantasize about, might actually be interested in me, isn't that RIDICULOUS?" And the fact is you probably wouldn't give him more than a second glance if yuo met him outside therapy, or maybe you would but you'd both know you were off limits, he was off limits, he's probably married or something, but because you're in this relationship, it's getting to be more than that.
And now you have to take the reins if he doesn't get ahold of himself. He might terminate you. That's all. That's what I think happened to me. But I could be wrong. Because you know, I'm delusional. ;)
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