Posted by Pfinstegg on October 17, 2005, at 14:57:13
In reply to Re: How are you doing FW?, posted by fairywings on October 17, 2005, at 11:20:53
I don't think he is actually doing therapy - he's just telling you to accept everything that's happened and move on. This can feel very invalidating and dismissive, even when a friend or family member says it. I'd be mad, too!
I know you haven't gone to him very long, but I would think that he would be trying to help you feel more deeply, and validate your feelings, himself, at this point. Attachment is important in healing, too. If what you've described is his style, every time, what about another T? Some sessions of EMDR at the same time might help a lot, too.
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