Posted by alexandra_k on October 16, 2005, at 23:41:34
In reply to Re: I don't feel the same way, posted by Dinah on October 16, 2005, at 22:38:57
> > she is still with me.
> > and she is with me just the way she used to be
> > just the way i liked / needed
> > :-)> I'm envious. I don't seem to have that talent. I can do it when people die, but not when my feelings change. There's this shift, and I can never see them the same way again.
Hmm.
My feelings for her didn't change before she left so I suppose her leaving was more like a death.You have to have some good memories of feeling comforted...
He doesn't have to be there even...
How about after a good session...
One where you felt happy and comforted.Can you access that?
(It might bring a tear or two...
But does it also bring comfort?)If this doesn't help - I'm sorry...
I haven't really thought along these lines before...
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