Posted by JenStar on October 17, 2005, at 10:45:51
In reply to Re: I don't feel the same way » fallsfall, posted by Dinah on October 17, 2005, at 8:52:54
I don't think it's stupid, I think it's normal that he's on your mind! So long he's been a kind of lifeline for you, a big constant in your life, a guide. It's completely understandable that you're missing his presence and reacting to the big changes in his style and the situation.
It's OK to be protective of him AND mad at him too, I think. I've heard enough good things about him from your posts that I'm not going to suddenly start "hating" him on your behalf, even if he is behaving strangely, crossing boundaries, or lacking lately as a T, and I don't think others would start doing that either.
I'm sorry he's changed lately, but I also respect the many good years you've had with him, and I know things are always so much more complicated than they seem on paper sometimes. I guess that's the tough part -- feeling love AND irritation at the same time! :)
I hope things settle out in a way that is pleasing to you. Post when you can, and take care of yourself!
JenStar
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