Posted by fairywings on September 27, 2005, at 12:36:12
In reply to Don't know how to bring this up with T (trigger?), posted by greyskyeyes on September 26, 2005, at 15:55:21
Hi grey,
I've had my little tantrums too, and I'm not very proud of them either. It's hard to admit to anyone, even a T that we go "ballistic". Is part of your fear telling her that you scared your toddler? I know my kids have steered clear of me when I'm in a snit, and I wouldn't want to admit it.
I can see where you wouldn't want your T to think less you you, but we all have our moments. We all have our weaknesses. If you didn't, you wouldn't need her. Let her help you with this one, even if you have to feel your way along, leaving out some details here and there, finding out which ones feel safe and adding them as you go. Admit up front you're embarrassed, she'll understand how bad you feel, she's been great so far, she won't reject you.
fw
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