Posted by JLynn on September 16, 2005, at 21:52:20
In reply to Re: alone..scared..angry - Long, posted by Deneb on September 16, 2005, at 21:28:24
> Why can't you imagine seeing another T in the meantime?
> Sometimes I find that talking to strangers can help.It's hard for me to trust and takes a long time to get comfortable. And I would hate to have to give all my history again just to see someone for a few sessions....I'm not sure how that works to see someone new just while your T is away.
> Maybe you can apologize to your daughter and explain that you get angry sometimes, but that it isn't her fault that you get so angry and that you still love her very much. Then you can promise her that you will not hurt her anymore?Maybe tell your daughter to tell you when you start to get angry so that you might step out of the situation and control your anger better?
I do apologize, but she is only 2. And thats what makes it so terrible. I do time-out and stuff with her, but sometimes I just don't have the patience. I should never spank her...she is too young. I don't want her to be afraid of me or hate me I hate myself enough for both of us.
Thanks Deneb. I may see a new T for a while....I just don't know. I wish I could get my Ts advice.
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