Posted by muffled on September 12, 2005, at 0:01:14
In reply to Hey muffled!, posted by crazy teresa on September 11, 2005, at 23:51:14
> It sounds to me that you have a tough time with boundries by the way you describe the way you interact with others. You are not responsible for other people's feelings. Do you feel like you need to please everybody all the time with whatever you say or do?
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> crazy tI just don't like hurting anyone. I hate to cause pain. Noone likes pain. I don't want to be a source of more pain. I'm trying to be good. I used to be bad and thats what I'm used to, but Iwant to be good. I guess I'm not responsible for other peoples feelings sometimes, but I feel like I am if I've done or said something stupid that has caused them pain. Then I shouldn't have done it. It was stupid. AmI making any sense here? i'm not entirely sure what boundaries entails . It seems to have many meanings only some of which I've learned so far. My poor old T. How can you T. someone when they don't interact?!Thanks for reply. It was cool to see my name like that!
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