Posted by fairywings on September 11, 2005, at 23:21:54
In reply to Re: Appointment on Monday? » fairywings, posted by Shortelise on September 11, 2005, at 23:11:43
i hope this comes out the right way shortE, i really mean to be helpful, and not add to your stress, but why you specifically instead of someone else, do you know her in some way? i used to extend myself because i thought it was "expected" of me, by whom i didn't know, but i quit because i was stressing myself out, and not pleasing whoever it was i thought i was supposed to be pleasing! ; ) and i never did figure out who that was..... confusing, me too. i'm not stress free, just extended myself in other ways, like having more kids. LOL
So, my question is, ....is there a reason why you extend yourself when you have so much going on and are feeling pretty stressed out? i'm not trying to pick on you, i'm just wondering if you've asked yourself these questions? it is the question i asked myself when i used to do it. i hope that didn't sound rude, i didn't mean it to!
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