Posted by gardenergirl on September 8, 2005, at 23:26:07
In reply to Re: I put this in writing ***trigger*** » terrics, posted by fairywings on September 8, 2005, at 10:24:53
Oh sweetie. I'm sorry this is such a hard issue and circumstance for you.
I can kind of relate to the not wanting to get someone in trouble or influence another's opinion about your ex-T. It took a long time for me to mention the name of someone I had bad experiences with to my T because I was afraid he knew the person. I didn't want to influence his opinion. But I eventually realized that his opinion of her, if he knew her, was his own, and it was up to him to take in the new information and manage it.
Do you suppose there is a way to talk about it without really saying what you were talking about at the time? Could you just say it was a very hard, very painful topic...a time when you really needed him to be fully present, and he let you down?
(((fairywings)))
gg
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