Posted by daisym on September 4, 2005, at 22:33:22
In reply to I put this in writing ***trigger***, posted by fairywings on September 4, 2005, at 22:07:24
I think what you wrote was fine. It seems that the x-Therapist issue needs to be sorted out or you will always be worrying about what you say and how it will effect you. I don't think this is a good way to start with this new person. If it was me, I think I'd address it directly - ask who is in charge of who and what might happen, etc. Better to know now, up front, so you know what to expect.
Talking about the rape is very hard and you need to feel really safe to get into it. Take it slow and don't push to hard. Don't underestimate what your daughter going to school will call up in you. This is how I found myself in therapy...triggered by kid stuff.
I think you are very brave.
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