Posted by fairywings on September 7, 2005, at 5:09:43
In reply to Re: I put this in writing ***trigger*** » fairywings, posted by alexandra_k on September 7, 2005, at 4:29:13
> oh
> (((((fw)))))
> i'm so sorry...Thanks Alex, you're so sweet and thoughtful! ; )
>>i'm sorry... i wouldn't have said what i did if i had known that. really. this must be a pretty hard time for you.
i don't remember what you said! i'll have to go check it out! ; ) i'm sure u never said anything that would offend me! it's okay, it was just the time b4 she went to school. she's doing beautifully and made it through that game. her bf is a 3rd degree black belt, i'm hoping he can go to ALL the games with her but he goes to a rival school. he went to her game and wore her colors though! i LOVE him!
I didn't hate the old T or anything, just think he should stick to CBT. i really didn't think i would have ever felt comfortable telling him some of the things i've already told the new T.
The only thing i decided to say is that the old T was "more helpful with current issues, and the appt. where he took the pers. phone call was when i told him i'd been raped in h.s., and that it was a leap of faith for me to try to talk about it because i didn't know him well but i had to talk to someone and i knew the timing was no accident because my daughter just started her frosh yr in h.s and just went to her 1st h.s football game.......i told him i have never discussed it much, not even with my husband, and i really would rather keep it that way."
thanks alex, i appreciate what you've said. i'm not sure if we'll get into it this week or not. the content gets so messy once we get into this part that i don't know if it would be a good idea or if we should hang around childhood for awhile, it's safer! ; )
fw
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