Posted by cricket on September 7, 2005, at 8:42:17
In reply to Crisis - T became so defensive /may be triggering, posted by kerria on September 2, 2005, at 0:03:08
(((((((((Kerria)))))))))))))
> My T became so defensive.
Yeah, I can imagine he did. It must be hard for him to hear that you think therapy has made you worse. Doesn't make it any easier on you though, does it?Mine gets defensive a lot too. He crosses his arms over his chest and swings his legs around to the side of his chair so he doesn't have to face me. It hurts.
i reminded T that after the session HE will be fine.
I like that you reminded him of that. Sometimes I just want to ask my T "Did you ever wonder what it's like to be me?"
Kerria, I think that if you were there once you can get back there. I used to be far more functional than I am now too. Maybe that part of my life is over. I don't know. I hope not.
It's hard for me to give advice on your T. I am struggling with so many of the same issues with mine. I hope it gets better for us.
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