Posted by LittleGirlLost on August 2, 2005, at 9:35:45
In reply to Re: I'm glad » LittleGirlLost, posted by Daisym on July 25, 2005, at 17:28:39
Daisy,
I appreciate your response and have been at a loss for words in terms of how to respond. You seem to have an awesome T and are doing some pretty incredible work with him. I hope in time, I am able to verbalize as much as you.
>> The best part about being able to tell him was that once when I was very upset I sort of quivered at him, "Do you KNOW how important you are to me?! Do you KNOW what it will do to me if you leave me in the middle of all of this?! You need to be very very careful with the power I've given you and please, please don't hurt me."Very powerful!!! How great for you to say that; that's big!
>> He said he did know and he would never intentionally hurt me. And if he unintentionally hurt me we would work through it and not give up on 'our' relationship.
I had to chuckle at this. Our T's are very very similar, as you know. My T said the same thing to me! Said she would never intentionally hurt me, and if she does, she wants me to tell her.
(Hmmm, but you got the extra part about the relationship!)Anyway, I've been having a really rough time since our last session. In fact, every week since she's been back from vacation has been bad.
~lgl
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