Posted by rs on August 1, 2005, at 17:03:39
In reply to Re: Feelings for therapist and terminating » rs, posted by rabidreader on August 1, 2005, at 14:07:04
My old T moved out of state. I was seeing him for years once a week. He gave me a months notice. I remember from this day that last session. What I regret is wish he would of just gave me a hug. That T and I learned together on what issues are here.
Yes he knew how I felt and how much hurt and pain it caused. I still at times miss him but nothing like in the past. But I also can phone him which I do like three times a year. I remember the first time I called after him being gone for a few years. He remembered me and said he always will.
I am happy that your seeing a t do deal with the lost. I should of done that but did not.
I love my T seeing in the present. Love as a person love and he is the best. But we worked to get were we are today. Hard work.
I understand how you are feeling and me saying it gets better overtime are not very supportive or you might not be able to imagine that it will. It does really.
By the way a member here Falls supported me during the new T realtionship which I thank her much for.
Good luck and let me know how you do.
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