Posted by caraher on June 29, 2005, at 12:19:00
In reply to Re: Interesting question about our hubbys and Ts wives, posted by Miss Honeychurch on June 29, 2005, at 7:29:10
> My husband has no problem that I have a male T. He is just thankful that I am getting help and have gotten so much better over the past 2 years. He also knows my feelings for my T and that I honestly love my T. I am lucky in that he has no problems with this. He really is the non-jealous type!
I'm on the wrong side of the gender divide to make any remarks about how my "hubby" would feel ;) but my wife, who is *very much* the jealous type, has no problems at all with my seeing a female T. Now I don't really talk to her about sessions much and I also am not "in love with" my T (I appreciate that she cares, I like her, and I think she's attractive, but there's no crush going on) so the fact that there's nothing for her to *be* jealous of can't hurt. (Though that hasn't stopped her from making off-target cutting remarks about female friends and acquaintances in the past.)
But just like Miss Honeychurch's husband, she's mostly glad to see me get help that seems to be useful.
poster:caraher
thread:520771
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20050628/msgs/521086.html