P.S.

Posted by antigua on June 24, 2005, at 16:18:43

In reply to Re: Getting Attracted/Falling in love - transference?, posted by antigua on June 24, 2005, at 11:51:08

I didn't finish what I had to say.
This transference happened with a T before, too, when he terminated me. It was terrible, but once I understood my role it helped lessen the pain.
So I think there's a huge difference between falling in love and transference. Or at least I hope so. While I might desperately want the transference type of love, I will never get it because it's not based on real things--or at least for me it's not.
antigua

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Getting Attracted/Falling in love - transference? pinkeye 6/23/05
When it works love, when it doesn't transference:) » pinkeye pinkeye 6/23/05
Re: Getting Attracted/Falling in love - transference? » pinkeye alexandra_k 6/23/05
The difference is only what works and what doesn't » alexandra_k pinkeye 6/23/05
Re: When it works love, when it doesn't transference:) » pinkeye alexandra_k 6/23/05
Re: The difference is only what works and what doesn't alexandra_k 6/23/05
That is all there is in life - if it works or not » alexandra_k pinkeye 6/23/05
Re: Getting Attracted/Falling in love - transference? antigua 6/24/05
P.S. antigua 6/24/05
Re: P.S. » antigua pinkeye 6/24/05

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