Posted by pinkeye on June 22, 2005, at 13:59:07
In reply to Confusing Session, posted by daisym on June 22, 2005, at 0:45:42
Both of you are just pure amazing..I really look forward to your posts nowadays.. You are just so amazing with words and the way you write. Great Job Daisy.
And your T is solid gold. I cannot emphasize more how good he is.. Especially the part about not beign afraid of talk about his wife, and his asking "In Bed?".. I think he is a solid guy. I am really glad for you that you found him. And I really think he cares very deeply about you.
Your feelings of childishness and adult like feelings are normal.. I also feel that childlike longings are more acceptable to me in my own mind than my adult feelings.. possibly because rejection and not being able to act on the feelings is easier with parental feelings than adult like feelings. I have had both.. and I still do.
I don't know what to share about how I spoke of all these with my ex T.. When I saw him face to face, he was good at understanding and validating my feelings. But emails are a bummer.. All my efforts only ended up in vain.. I didn't get much of a response for any confessions.. I really wish my ex T had been more like yours..
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