Posted by B2chica on June 10, 2005, at 12:27:12
In reply to Scared, ready to expose my skeltons to T, posted by happyflower on June 10, 2005, at 11:18:37
i can't add much more to what has been said but i understand very well.
there are times where i too think i may be 'outgrowing' my husband. i think sometimes that had i received therapy for my needs sooner than i may not have married him. i have changed a lot in his eyes over the last 1 1/2 years, but really i'm just finally showing him who i really am.
i've come to realize that i want to try to stay with him, if he can accept who i am it will work. He is often afraid of my independance also, he is very insecure and often asks me if i'm going to leave him. it's difficult to be the 'strength' of the marriage when you're falling apart inside isn't it.
in order for your marriage to be a healthy one, YOU need to be healthy. take care of yourself, share your needs/wants with both your T and hubby. Say your fears outloud.You DO need to be open to your T. be blunt (they can't repeat it and can't tell your hubby).
take care
b2c.
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