Posted by pinkeye on May 19, 2005, at 22:13:14
In reply to Re: I am still in awe..babble is making me rethink » pinkeye, posted by sunny10 on May 19, 2005, at 14:48:22
*****if what you are giving in to goes against you're own core values, it is never right. That's what compromise is for...each person "giving in a little" in order to preserve an integral sense of self for each person in any relationship.
That is an awesome statement. I guess that has been one of the problems for me in my marriage. My husband has been trying to rewrite the basic me, and that is what is horrifying for me. But the basic me that my father taught me was also not right. So I also want to change some of it. And I am so confused.
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