Posted by Tamar on May 15, 2005, at 15:03:45
In reply to Do any of you block your T or ex T out?, posted by pinkeye on May 15, 2005, at 14:02:44
Maybe it’s a response to the pain of termination. If you feel rejected or abandoned, perhaps you try to deny the pain and pretend you have no feelings for him.
I’ve gone through all kinds of feelings for my ex-T since termination. I’ve been sad, angry, sad, bitter, abandoned, sad, hurt, longing, sad, rejected, a little bit accepting, and back to sad. About a week ago I got really angry and then for a few days I didn’t feel anything for him. And I thought, ‘Yippee! I’m over him.’ But then he started creeping back into my thoughts and my feelings.
I suppose it’s always sad when a relationship comes to an end, especially if it’s a relationship we wanted to continue. Have you tried writing him a letter you know you won’t send? It might help you access your feelings again.
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