Posted by fallsfall on May 14, 2005, at 14:42:30
In reply to Another pity part for me, posted by daisym on May 13, 2005, at 23:02:33
(((Daisy)))
Just be you. You are such a wonderful person. Your staff at work know it. That's why they aren't angry at you. They know that you are genuine.
Just be you in therapy. Don't try to plan it. Don't strategize. Don't decide to be one way or another way. Just be you. If you are angry, then let yourself be angry. If you are scared, be scared. Don't try to *make* yourself be any particular way. Deep inside, you know what you need. Don't let your conscious mind keep you from getting it.
Trust that you - the real you - are a good person. I know that is true. Your therapist will be there with you, supporting you in whatever way you need. Let him do that.
Let us help you, too.
Love,
Falls
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