Posted by pinkeye on May 3, 2005, at 20:38:46
In reply to Pinkeye, we are not!, posted by Dinah on May 3, 2005, at 20:29:05
Thank you Dinah.
It must be something to do with my own psychology. I never feel it is ok to feel things myself. I tell others it is ok. But I never really allow myself to feel. I keep denying it and somehow think I am being a pain to everyone around me. Even though I recognize I don't feel that way about others. I think lot of it has to do with how I was brought up as a child and being completely isolated from everyone and having had to please my father all the time. I even gave up my basic need to even talk to my mom and connect with her because my dad asked me not to. And I think it is continuing till today.
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