Posted by pinkeye on May 3, 2005, at 14:15:42
In reply to Re: Is Babble keeping me regressed? » pinkeye, posted by whirlpool on May 3, 2005, at 14:11:36
Thanks. I have done both of the things that you have suggested endlessly. It does help to a good extent.
But it is not the same thing as getting some understanding from the person who you have the transference towards. I think lots of healing really comes from the relationship itself, rather than the knowledge. Knowledge doesn't help emotions too much. It helps 80 %, but to really heel, I think it needs a relationship. And somehow now, I want my ex T, to tell me that what I felt/did was all ok. That he understood.
Anyway, I know I won't be getting that kind of response. So there is no use.
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