Posted by shrinking violet on April 29, 2005, at 18:46:21
In reply to How do I forgive, posted by pinkeye on April 29, 2005, at 18:33:09
my gosh, {{{{{{{{{{{{pinkeye}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I'm sorry you had to endure that, hon. I feel for you. You have every right to be enraged at what he put you through. I think the concept of forgiveness is more for the victim/sufferer to use as a tool to move past the hurt, etc, and not necessarily an angelic act toward the perpetrator. If anger is what you need to feel right now, that is okay, there is nothing wrong with that, and it doesn't make you any "less" of a person in any way. I hope you find some peace this weekend.
SV
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