Posted by Daisym on April 28, 2005, at 11:00:45
In reply to Re: Rescue Fantasy, posted by Miss Honeychurch on April 28, 2005, at 8:13:11
I agree with you that sometimes a fantasy is just a fantasy. And I think there are a few that I wouldn't tell -- there is no need to tell.
I think the reason we talked about this one is that I was feeling really sad about the limitations of his support, like it wasn't "real" during a crisis like this because he couldn't physical come to the hospital with me, or stop by the house. He reminded me that I could carry him with me, and that I *did* have my phone, which is where he "lives" between sessions. :)
He asked the flip side of this question too: Have you ever fantasized about rescuing me? That was hard to answer...
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