Posted by fallsfall on April 28, 2005, at 6:48:26
In reply to Hmm, posted by alexandra_k on April 28, 2005, at 4:35:28
What are you supposed to do with it? Maybe be patient with yourself.
This post showed some patterns that you have recognized. That is the first step. Just to recognize that there are patterns. The second step is to figure out what the patterns are (perhaps in your case it is talking about a previous provider). Then you can start to work on why do you have those patterns.
It might be worth talking to her about what her role *is*, and why you aren't clear about her role. (Maybe if she isn't your "therapist", then she won't have to leave you?)
These things are so confusing. Try to understand that it will take you time to sort it all out, and be patient with yourself. Sounds like you are working hard right now. When do you see her again?
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