Posted by Tamar on March 29, 2005, at 15:11:59
In reply to Re: Not at all attached to my new T » pegasus, posted by pinkeye on March 28, 2005, at 22:53:35
It's so hard to terminate, even when it goes smoothly, that I'm not surprised you're not very attached to your new T. I'm sure your old T was trying to make things easier for you, but it's difficult to believe. If this is 'easier', what would 'harder' look like? My T said something about it being easier for me because I don't know anything about him, and I really felt as if he couldn't imagine how hard it was! Easier? Hah!
Have you tried talking to your T about your lack of attachment? I suspect that if you don't want to raise the subject with her it's because you don't want to be more attached, and perhaps that's all the more reason to talk to her about it. What do you think?
I hope you start to feel a bit better soon.
Tamar
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