Posted by pinkeye on March 28, 2005, at 16:51:24
I have been going to a new T for the last few months (maybe 6).. But the weird thing is I totally am not attached to her.. Not even a little bit. I don't even recall what she was wearing in the session after it is over. And I don't think of her even once.
And she keeps it extremely business like and I am sure she doesn't care personally even a little about me.
But I think she is very good with her view points.
Is it normal to not get attached even a little to a person who spends so much time helping you? It is the exact opposite experience I had with my previous T. I got so extremely attached and used to think about him all the time.. Even now, I think of him as my T really and not her. I have never been so unattached to anyone in my life.. not even to my colleagues. IT is very strange for me.
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