Posted by pinkeye on March 21, 2005, at 19:04:33
In reply to tis been awhile, posted by Jadah on March 20, 2005, at 16:41:58
Take Care Jadah. It was nice to hear from you. I hope things turn out well for you and your ex T and that no one gets hurt too much in the process.
Sometimes all we can do is just wish for some magical star to step in and correct everything in our lives.
I don't know what would be good for you - to continue your relationship or to not continue. I think slowly backing off and trying to find someone else might be a good answer. Your T does seem like a good person even though he has violated boundaries big time. It is evident from his efforts in trying to get you to date and find other men. Maybe according to professional ethics, he is totally wrong, but from a more humane point of view, what he has done seems acceptable to me.
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