Posted by shrinking violet on March 19, 2005, at 19:10:46
In reply to Fear of Talking, Relationship, Abandonment... Long, posted by Poet on March 19, 2005, at 12:47:01
Wow ((((((poet))))))
The conversation with your T you just posted about mimics many a dialogue I've had with my T on the same topic.
You aren't "messed up," sweetie......You're afraid. You've been hurt so many times, as have I, as have so many of us....There's nothing wrong with trying to protect yourself. However, if your fear and defensiveness begins to get in the way of forming connections with people....then maybe it's time to take a second look and see if you can begin a compromise with yourself, take some small steps. Trusting your T, even a little, is one of them.
And no, you don't quit.... It will be worth it in the end. :-)
Take care hon. Keep going!!
SV
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