Posted by annierose on March 13, 2005, at 6:42:48
In reply to Re: Visit to pdoc (long) » daisym, posted by alexandra_k on March 13, 2005, at 0:15:30
Daisy -
I think the Pdoc was way off base to make those types of reccommendations. Exactly what Alexandra said, "how many times has she seen you?"
Three, and "our" favorite board therapist, 180 times? Seriously, your heart knows the truth, trust it. Your T is not sick of you. He knows you need the additional support and he goes out of his way to make that happen for you. And he tells you, it is not a problem for him. He does take care of himself, he tells you that. Believe him.You just can't ignore your past. It's always within us. So without exploring it, it creeps back into our everyday life in ways that is sometimes harmful, our unconscious works in strange ways.
If I was your T, I would want to strangle the Pdoc too. I wonder how quickly you left his office, before his placed a phonecall to her, "What the h*ll were you doing?"
I hope you are able to process your T's session and not berate yourself about the Pdoc's inappropriate observations about YOUR therapy (she's not in that room with you!).
Annierose
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