Posted by Dinah on March 10, 2005, at 18:24:28
In reply to Re: Let us know how today went, o.k.? » annierose, posted by mair on March 10, 2005, at 17:05:53
> From my perspective it went pretty well although maybe for some of the wrong reasons.
>:-)
Congratulations on your perspicacity. I'm not saying a work discussion won't be productive. Heaven only knows it's my main life problem right now, and we've talked about it plenty.
But my main impression from your post is that you feel like you've diverted her from dangerous territory into the safe, that you've re-established control. And I wonder if maybe you're missing an opportunity to figure out the why of what you do. Because perhaps your dislike of discussing things that put you in a negative light is an important but unspoken part of the puzzle, and your potential progress is limited until you see how it fits.
Or maybe I'm all wet.
It's been a long long... geez, how long has it been?
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