Posted by alexandra_k on March 6, 2005, at 19:53:51
In reply to Re: Losing Control » Dinah, posted by Susan47 on March 6, 2005, at 11:28:29
> C told me ... that it was okay to sit in his outer office pretty much as needed. He did welcome me to do that, verbally.
Ah, that makes sense.
> I replaced the coming to his office mainly with phoning his answering machine.
Ah. Well, that makes more sense now too.
>To the point that if he answered, I would ask if I could talk to the machine.
Ha! Oh Susan, that made me laugh! In a good way. I can just imagine it 'please can you hang up the phone, I was hoping to hear your answer phone'. Kind of backwards. But yes, that makes sense.
>And he would always allow that.
Ok.
> I don't think he'd purposely hurt me.
No, I don't think he would either.
>Some of the things he's done have hurt me, but I think he did them thinking they'd help me move on, and perhaps they have.
Yeah. It helps to know WHY though, doesn't it. If only they could explain it sometimes...
>Now I know I can never see him again, because he'll be cold and rejecting..
Yup.
Not to hurt - but to try to help you move on.
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