Posted by mair on February 24, 2005, at 16:32:15
In reply to Re: My T Just Called Me » mair, posted by Aphrodite on February 24, 2005, at 15:08:16
Did wish and still wish. In fact we've had some discussions lately about how much I wish she could read my mind. I don't know whether I want this because then it wouldn't be totally on me to raise important issues, or whether I want her to intuit more because it will just make me feel cared for more - you know, the idea that this person cares enough to think enough about what you need so your needs are actually anticipated.
What sometimes makes it seem worse is that my T has a tendency to jump in too quickly when I'm struggling to say something. So she'll attempt to finish my only partially expressed thought. What's worrisome, is how often she is WRONG. Not only does she not read my mind, but she doesn't pick up on the clues very well either. What does that mean?
mair
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