Posted by mair on February 21, 2005, at 14:43:20
In reply to Re: My T Just Called Me » mair, posted by daisym on February 21, 2005, at 14:19:32
" I find that when I force myself not to call, not to be dependent on him, I get way more depressed. My therapist encourages me to "sink into these feelings" and jut allow myself to need him. It is way hard."
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Yeah, but remember you have everyone's ideal T.
(-;My T hasn't been quite so encouraging, and I'm not ready to push that envelope. We've also talked about the interrelationship between dependency and attachment only briefly, if fairly recently. She certainly hasn't encouraged me to really lean on her.
Thanks for the encouragement. You guys have been great.
mair
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