Posted by rainbowbrite on February 20, 2005, at 18:56:11
In reply to Re: NO therapy success??, posted by gardenergirl on February 20, 2005, at 7:04:26
HAHA welcome to the sloppy club!!
>Maybe you can frame your discussion with your T in terms of what your goal is/was when you started, and how far you've come towards it. That is a good reason to terminate, if you are not making progress towards your goal. It could be that you and she are on different pages as to what you want to do.
Well I started therapy with completely differnet issues, I came needing help with soemthing that in a way completely unrelated to me, But I have since then realized that my sole problem was something else, which I Believe if I deal with will solve ALL my life problems (I think Im dreaming lol). But for real, it is a huge part.
>Also, you mentioned that there was this "one thing", I think, you really wanted to get better. Is that what you and your T talk about? Or does she not pick up on that?"pick up on it" is a good way to word it, I think my T does not get it at all. I know I avoid, which is weird because I know I need to talk about it and I even want to do it to get it over with, but I still avoid. Its a strange feeling. My T is just not very good at taking my desparte hints and even my direct attempts to discuss ARG!! So now I need the strength to confront and either a miricle will occur or I will terminate. Its very stressful to think about having to do!
Didn't being fired make you hate the patient? I shouldn't care so much, ugh! but I don't know how to do it in a gentle way :(
I am pulling my hair out thinking about it.
Thanks
rainPS - I just spilled tea all over my leg lol
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