Posted by gardenergirl on February 20, 2005, at 7:21:41
In reply to Re: Emotional Abandonment » Shortelise, posted by daisym on February 19, 2005, at 19:17:17
Daisy,
Sorry I am late to this thread. I was thinking about abandonment myself recently. I always have to pull out my Palm and verify that we are scheduled for the next week at the same time. It's always been that day and time...for months, now. He even tells me he is putting it in his schedule through March or something. But I have to check. I used to blame it on faulty memory, but lately I realized that I just needed the reasurrance that he'll be there when I come.Yuck. That's a little worry. I can't imagine the intensity of what you are describing. I'm glad your T is reassuring.
I also think it's interesting what you and someone else on this thread said about sensing stuff based on pauses, comments, etc. I bet you are very good at reading people, due to your experiences. That probably is helpful and difficult at the same time.
Warmly,
gg
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