Posted by TamaraJ on February 17, 2005, at 0:20:40
In reply to Re: Freud anyone? » TamaraJ, posted by daisym on February 17, 2005, at 0:08:59
> I know this is why I have such issues with anger too. My dad used to explode over such little things and it was always a moving target.
-- My dad was the exact same. Even my mom mentioning that the windows needed to be washed (not asking him to do it) at the dinner table, would set him off.
And then he would feel bad and be sorry...and that was worse.
-- It was rare that my father said he was sorry or displayed any remorse.
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> I hate the whole cycle. It makes me nervous.-- Same here. There is no need for it.
> The most awful parts of my husband's illness are the medications that make him volatile and his anger and bitterness at being sick. A bad combination.
-- My heart goes out to you. I mean, it's hard enough to deal with volatile behaviour when all is right, or seems right, with our own worlds.
> I've been asking a lot lately, "How did I find myself in this situation again." I don't have the answer yet.-- Those answers are hard to come by sometimes. But, I think, the answers do come to us eventually - when we are ready.
Tamara
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