Posted by gardenergirl on February 2, 2005, at 22:02:33
In reply to Re: I think I need to find a new T, posted by mair on February 2, 2005, at 21:46:15
This really sounds like an issue with her that she doesn't have a good handle on. I can see a one time mix-up, but if it's continual, I think you should look elsewhere. I remember a trainee I knew of once who occasionally would cancel her clients for what seemed to me to be really trivial reasons. I was appalled. Being on time for sessions is important, too.
My T once double-booked me accidentally. It was awful! I felt so small. He explained what happened, and I understood, but it still was a bad experience. Thank goodness it has not happened again.
I agree with the others. Go with your gut. Or call her out on it and set some very clear boundaries if you feel like giving her one more chance. It sounds like a behavior she needs to improve for her own sake, too.
Sorry you have to deal with it, though.
gg
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