Posted by mair on January 28, 2005, at 21:39:17
In reply to He hadn't noticed, posted by Dinah on January 28, 2005, at 20:39:40
Tell him to pay more attention. Although it's always tough for me to know whether my T just doesn't "get" me when she should, or whether she doesn't "get" me because i'm communicating so poorly and think she should be a mind reader.
Dinah - you are not a worm, but you need to have a little more trust in him and a little more regard for yourself to realize that he feels a real sense of commitment to you.
Unless I was misunderstanding her, my T I thought told me once that she would view my quitting as a part of the process and not as an irrevocable decision. I used to worry that if I quit, or took a break she'd never take me back. Of course she also told me yesterday that I should feel free to express any negative sentiment about her I felt including that I wanted to kill her. Righttt - like I'd ever say that even if I felt it.
Please keep us posted and please please be a bit kinder to yourself.
Mair
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