Posted by All Done on January 24, 2005, at 23:55:19
In reply to Whose responsibility is it?, posted by Daisym on January 24, 2005, at 22:59:59
(((Daisy))),
Well, I think ultimately it has to be your responsibility to reach out when you need the support because although we may wish our Ts are mind readers, sadly, they are not ;). I think it is great that your T realizes it may be difficult for you and wants to make it as easy as possible.
But you seem so hard on yourself about asking for and taking his support. You are going through something so difficult and only you know the full extent of it. Your T is the next closest to knowing everything. So, let him be there for you as much as you need. He can help and is there to help.
I'm sorry. I know you've heard all this before, but I hope you can listen to yourself. Deep down (or maybe even not so deep) you know when you need him. There will be plenty of time for handling things by yourself once you have worked through all of this some more and are feeling stronger. It's *so* okay that you need all the support you can get right now. Take it.
(((((Daisy)))))
Take care,
Laurie
poster:All Done
thread:447134
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