Posted by messadivoce on December 16, 2004, at 20:24:52
In reply to Backsliding(way- too long), posted by 10derheart on December 16, 2004, at 18:53:38
Hello 10derhearted,
I'm so glad you posted. I empathize with you as someone who has experienced losing a beloved T, and although you say you are backsliding, I really think you are healing. It's so hard when we think we are doing well and will never go back "there" and then to return to that dark place we thought we had left behind. But I'm really starting to think it's all part of the process.
I'm so sorry about your new T!! That must have been so rotten. What a letdown. I hope you are able to hear from him before the weekend. I am so happy for you that your old T is so understanding. It takes such courage to transfer the trust from one man to another and I think you are such a strong person to have been able to begin that with this new T. Let us know what happens. Take care of yourself. I reccomend cheescake. It's the best legal antidote for human misery that I've found.
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