Posted by littleone on December 15, 2004, at 14:57:24
In reply to Having a Tantrum, posted by Daisym on December 14, 2004, at 21:35:36
Oh Daisy, how terrible. I'm glad your T handled it so well. I love your T. Now, about that cloning.... ;)
You know, little Daisy had every right to throw her tantrum. It's great that she feels safe enough to do so. I remember that she threw one not long ago. Is it getting a little easier to let go like that?
Now I want you to go back and reread fallsfall's post because it really said everything so well. I second everything falls said.
Oh, and re feeling selfish about it, think about this. If your friend knew how upsetting this was for you (and I'm not suggesting you tell her), in all likelihood, she would be happy to move to another T. They haven't built a bond with their T like you have with yours. And yet, it doesn't sound like they'll even have to take this move. Just ensuring your appointment times stay separate should be enough.
Or is that still an issue for you? That they are still invading your safe space even if you're not there to see it happen.
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