Posted by sunny10 on November 17, 2004, at 11:21:12
In reply to Re: obsession » Miss Honeychurch, posted by crushedout on November 17, 2004, at 11:00:19
remember, too, while that googling the old T is pointless right now (but NOT abnormal), try to think of googling the new T as advocating for yourself.
It IS important that you know enough about a new T to make yourself comfortable enough to work with them.
Some "obsessions" are actually good for us.
Don't beat yourself up so much- letting go of old habits and starting newer, healthier ones is still a scary time. You have a right to feel this way.
Nothing you are doing sounds "wrong" to me.
Just think, you'll actually be able to have a good start with the new T, having read up on her!
And give yourself permission to "be", in any way that helps you to help yourself like you obviously are by starting with a new T.
-sunny10
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