Posted by shortelise on November 5, 2004, at 12:26:24
In reply to Meaningless Musing on my Therapist, posted by Miss Honeychurch on November 4, 2004, at 15:48:47
Wow, this is really emotional for me, reading this thread. I didn't know.
Miss H/C, unless your T is a complete idiot, which I doubt, he is going to realize that your love is a gift, and a priviledge.
Why you want to tell him? Because you've be so honest with him, because there are few secrets between you, because it's such a strong feeling... Why does anyone ever want to tell another person about their love?
The question I am asking myself is what does it mean to me when someone tells me they love me?
It's funny Miss H/C, but I can only think of reasons that I couldn't tell my T. Fear. Maybe for you, telling him is evidence of freedom from this fear? I don't know where you came from, where you started, but maybe trusting him enough to love him, and enough to tell him so, is important. For me, right now, it would be a step into the abyss. For you, if trust you will step onto solid ground, maybe that's important?
I don't know. This sure gets me by the heart, though.
ShortE
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